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The Insider
Champion Joined: 20 Feb 2007 Location: Brisbane Status: Offline Points: 4860 |
Topic: RIP Danny Bowen Posted: 20 Jun 2014 at 8:01pm |
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Former Ballina trainer Danny Bowen sadly lost battle with depression. Condolences to his family
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Bright Day
Champion Joined: 17 Apr 2014 Location: Vic Status: Offline Points: 2129 |
Posted: 20 Jun 2014 at 8:07pm | ||
Sad. Vale.
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Gay3
Moderator Group Joined: 19 Feb 2007 Location: Miners Rest Status: Online Points: 52021 |
Posted: 20 Jun 2014 at 8:31pm | ||
Heartfelt sympathy to his family & friends, always so gut wrenching for those left behind
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Wisdom has been chasing me but I've always outrun it!
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James
Champion Joined: 15 Jan 2011 Location: Melbourne Status: Offline Points: 7230 |
Posted: 20 Jun 2014 at 8:36pm | ||
Feel for his family and the man himself. There is always another way out and as long as you have people around you that's all that matters. Walk away from your problems and start again.
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Browndog
Moderator Group Joined: 30 Oct 2009 Location: Brunswick Hds N Status: Offline Points: 35559 |
Posted: 20 Jun 2014 at 9:43pm | ||
RIP brother
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Tuft_it_Tees
Champion Joined: 15 Jun 2014 Status: Offline Points: 3683 |
Posted: 20 Jun 2014 at 10:14pm | ||
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James
Champion Joined: 15 Jan 2011 Location: Melbourne Status: Offline Points: 7230 |
Posted: 20 Jun 2014 at 10:22pm | ||
Yeah I understand what you're saying. I have had a family member try to end it all and there was nothing I could do over a long period of time to get them to see the world differently. Really awful what the brain can do to a person. |
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Tuft_it_Tees
Champion Joined: 15 Jun 2014 Status: Offline Points: 3683 |
Posted: 20 Jun 2014 at 10:33pm | ||
I don't doubt that chemical imbalances in the brain alone, without any outside circumstances contributing, can lead people to a dark place. During the cold war, the espionage apparatus of both the US and USSR developed drugs that could induce suicidal depression in a matter of minutes, and no doubt were used to silence people without it looking like a murder.
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bigt
Yearling Joined: 21 Jan 2010 Status: Offline Points: 161 |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014 at 8:58am | ||
RIP Danny, a great man, a great character and a great mentor to so many kids battling through the early days of their careers in Dubbo, Gosford and the northern rivers. A tragedy to his large family and the many 100s of people who knew Danny in the racing fraternity. A sad day. RIP mate.
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www.taronclarke.com
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GAJ
Champion Joined: 13 Apr 2011 Location: Alstonville,NSW Status: Offline Points: 4410 |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014 at 11:33am | ||
Very very sad, known him a while now and such a character, his son Daniel always at his side, he will be lost without him, they were a team. RIP Danny, your greatness will be missed.
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GAJ
Champion Joined: 13 Apr 2011 Location: Alstonville,NSW Status: Offline Points: 4410 |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014 at 11:41am | ||
http:/m.youtube.com/watch?v=Tx0bj2akVk&feature=you.be
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Browndog
Moderator Group Joined: 30 Oct 2009 Location: Brunswick Hds N Status: Offline Points: 35559 |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014 at 11:43am | ||
Dead link GAJ
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GAJ
Champion Joined: 13 Apr 2011 Location: Alstonville,NSW Status: Offline Points: 4410 |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014 at 1:25pm | ||
https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=TxObj2akVlk This should work. sorry.. |
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Browndog
Moderator Group Joined: 30 Oct 2009 Location: Brunswick Hds N Status: Offline Points: 35559 |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014 at 1:50pm | ||
Thanks GAJ That was his favorite song, '"Horses" Before that was The Eagles "Desperado"
It was funny, on road trips Dan always pulled his Desperado cassette out of his pocket and play it over and over, singing along and tearing up. He was a great man
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GAJ
Champion Joined: 13 Apr 2011 Location: Alstonville,NSW Status: Offline Points: 4410 |
Posted: 21 Jun 2014 at 1:57pm | ||
Both beautiful songs.
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Browndog
Moderator Group Joined: 30 Oct 2009 Location: Brunswick Hds N Status: Offline Points: 35559 |
Posted: 23 Jun 2014 at 8:12am | ||
Family of late horse trainer plans foundationTHE family of long-time local horse trainer Danny Bowen plans to establish a foundation in his memory after his life support was turned off at Lismore Base Hospital last Friday night. His death comes after a long battle with severe depression and his family believes there is not enough support available for people in the racing industry who have the condition. "Dad was in severe pain because of the depression and desperately wanted help but he couldn't get the support he needed," his daughter, Brooke Bowen, said yesterday. "We don't want Dad's death to be in vain. "We want to establish a foundation in his name so that people in the racing industry - particularly trainers, strappers and jockeys - can get help when they need it. "We need people giving that help who understand the racing industry and know what people in this industry go through.
"It is a very hard game. "Once everything settles down we will look at the mechanics of setting it all up." Danny Bowen's funeral will be held at the Ballina race course, possibly early next week. It has had to be delayed until a post mortem is completed. "Dad's heart and soul was in Ballina and he loved that race course," Brooke said. "It is the appropriate place to hold it." Danny Bowen trained for most of his career out of Ballina before recently moving his stable to Lismore. He was planning to retire at the end of this season and hand over to his son and foreman, Daniel, who is applying for his licence. The horses are being transferred temporarily to fellow Lismore trainer and long-time family friend Jennifer Smith until Daniel Bowen secures his licence. Recently, Victorian-based Caulfield Cup-winning trainer Tony Vasil publicly admitted to severe depression and sought help in North Queensland. "It doesn't matter how successful you are, the pressures as a trainer can still wear you down and, in Dad's case and again in Tony Vasil's case, lead to severe depression," Daniel said. "It was the pressures that wore Dad down. "No one realises how much pressure trainers are under, particularly country trainers." Danny Bowen is survived by his wife Shelley, children Daniel, Brooke and Leanne, and eight grandchildren |
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GAJ
Champion Joined: 13 Apr 2011 Location: Alstonville,NSW Status: Offline Points: 4410 |
Posted: 24 Jun 2014 at 8:20pm | ||
Cheers to Daniel S Bowen today, having his first starter as a trainer, I am sure dad will be very proud of him in times to come.
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Browndog
Moderator Group Joined: 30 Oct 2009 Location: Brunswick Hds N Status: Offline Points: 35559 |
Posted: 25 Jun 2014 at 8:44am | ||
Daniel Bowen Jr to take the reins after death of one of northern NSW’s leading trainers and father
Assistance: Racing NSW has worked tirelessly to establish specialist programs to support industry participants in times of need. Bowen Jr, 29, has been a long-time stable foreman and Racing NSW yesterday granted approval for him to take over his father’s Lismore stables. Danny Bowen, one of the northern NSW’s leading trainers, died last Friday night, after his life support was turned off at Lismore Base Hospital. It is understood he had been suffering from depression. Bowen’s family plan to establish a foundation in his memory to provide help for people in the racing industry who suffer from the disease. Racing NSW chief executive Peter V’landys said “Bowen’s passing and the circumstances around it are a tragedy for his family and, of course, his friends and the larger racing community. “Danny was well known in the northern rivers of New South Wales as a larger than life character that not only raced a lot locally, but travelled his horses for the right races. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him. “Depression and pressures of life are issues that cut across all sections of the community, and racing is no exception. “Racing NSW has worked closely with the Trainers Association, Jockeys Association and other industry representatives in recent years to establish specialist programs to support our participants in times of need. Working in the racing industry can be extremely demanding occupation. Picture: Mark Evans “Specialist psychologists and counsellors are available to trainers, strappers, jockeys and others who may need support and professional help to balance their lives. The programs are at no cost to our participants and completely confidential. “Racing NSW is very conscious of the dangers of depression and will continue to offer our support through these specialist programs.” NSW Trainers Association chief executive Steve McMahon said the news of Bowen’s death is “heart breaking”. “Our thoughts and prayers are with Danny’s family, friends and fellow trainers,’’ McMahon said. “Trainers are doing it tough across the country but there is help out there. My plea to trainers is please never be too proud to ask for help if you’re struggling.’’ Bowen is survived by his wife Shelley, children Daniel, Brooke and Leanne and eight grandchildren. Funeral arrangements have yet to be finalised. Racing NSW recommends those in the racing industry suffering from depression to contact: Trainer/Strapper Assistance program — 1300 88 77 24 or jockeys assistance program — (02) 9929 8515 / 0403 944 900 and Lifeline — 13 11 14 |
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SHOVHOG
Champion Joined: 20 Apr 2014 Status: Offline Points: 1447 |
Posted: 29 Jun 2014 at 5:42pm | ||
No doubt this was sad. But I take umbrage to the quote "Lost his battle" People have terminally ill kids that lose their battle cruelly. Danny simply gave up. |
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" In gambling the many must lose in order for the few to win"
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Fiddlesticks
Champion Joined: 31 Dec 2012 Status: Offline Points: 49975 |
Posted: 29 Jun 2014 at 6:41pm | ||
Sorry to be so blunt and ask, but how did he actually pass..?
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Panspermia.
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Tuft_it_Tees
Champion Joined: 15 Jun 2014 Status: Offline Points: 3683 |
Posted: 29 Jun 2014 at 6:45pm | ||
Wait for the Coroner's report, fiddles. But saying someone "gave up" is a cheap shot. |
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The Barb
Champion Joined: 15 Jan 2010 Status: Offline Points: 373 |
Posted: 29 Jun 2014 at 6:57pm | ||
I would have thought fighting oppressive mental anguish day after day after day would more than qualify as a 'battle'. But each ignoramus to their own.
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The Black Demon
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Tuft_it_Tees
Champion Joined: 15 Jun 2014 Status: Offline Points: 3683 |
Posted: 29 Jun 2014 at 7:00pm | ||
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Fiddlesticks
Champion Joined: 31 Dec 2012 Status: Offline Points: 49975 |
Posted: 29 Jun 2014 at 7:48pm | ||
more than most people ever know...it's like quicksand you just can't seem to fully extricate yourself from... There are no full cures that I am currently aware of, only very ordinary forms of management-treatment...I would encourage Ayahuasca though for those who are at the cliff edge...definitely worth a shot. |
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Panspermia.
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Gay3
Moderator Group Joined: 19 Feb 2007 Location: Miners Rest Status: Online Points: 52021 |
Posted: 29 Jun 2014 at 7:55pm | ||
John Sadler discussed his battle with Nadia Horne last week, which I missed but they've been playing snippets from it including his saying how incredibly hard it is to even get out of bed, that you must get help, meds do help & tho' it does take a long time, you will recover. I wish I'd heard it as he sounded very intense.
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Wisdom has been chasing me but I've always outrun it!
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acacia alba
Champion Joined: 30 Oct 2010 Location: Hunter Valley Status: Offline Points: 41547 |
Posted: 29 Jun 2014 at 9:00pm | ||
for anyone suffering depressive illness,s, there are now many avenues to obtain help, and you owe it to your family to suck it up, stop suffering in silence, and seek that help.
just sitting back and suffering in silence doesnt cut it any more. its a subject that is so widely discussed now, and so many well known people have suffered , spoken out, and urged all sufferers to get help, so just go do it. there are many avenues who will provide help for you so go seek it. dont sit back and put your family thru hell . |
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animals before people.
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SHOVHOG
Champion Joined: 20 Apr 2014 Status: Offline Points: 1447 |
Posted: 30 Jun 2014 at 12:19am | ||
How is it a cheap shot? Two of my friends have killed themselves in the last year that were apparently suffering "depression". I have watched people write all over facebook about how they were great dads and blah blah. Both had young kids so yes obviously they are great dads because they are dead and we have to be politically correct. Being a drug addict or a gambling addict isn't depression but you watch the sycophants after a person who has necked himself say that he was depressed instead of the real reason.
Danny Bowen was a real sufferer of the disease and there are many more but there is also a mass depressed demographic between 15-25 years old who are just addicted to facebook and being lazy hopeless people. They use it as a getout clause. I am not an enabler. Society needs to toughen up. |
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" In gambling the many must lose in order for the few to win"
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Brooke_B
Foal Joined: 15 Mar 2015 Location: Ballina Status: Offline Points: 9 |
Posted: 18 May 2019 at 7:24am | ||
It's been 5 years next month since my father took his own life and you know what when this post was started I was first reading it and than simply forgot but this morning thinking of my father missing him and thinking how proud he would be of my brother Daniel and his success and I read what you wrote, you mate have absolutely know idea what your talking about !!!
Did you even know my father to sit there and say he gave up??? HA any one that knew my father knows h was never a quitter or simply give up, evidently you never experienced the feeling off deep clinical depression one where one day you want to be around your family who love you and need you and the next day you think your a burden and not good enough and nothing seems to get better !!! Do you know my father ??? Did you know he was one of the main voices of country racing for trainers jockeys owners and staff did you know that he help d soany people through the racing industry I lost count on how many extended family my self and sibling and mother have because my father gave every one a chance and go of they loved horses his whole life was horse and his family and friends he would give his shirt of his back if you never had one and was cold!!! How dare you say that it's not a battle he lost well what do you think depression and suicidal thoughts are ??? It's a battle with you own mind you uneducated person my father never wanted to leave his family his mental state of mind did many years of depression treated for years for it and he LOST HIS BATTLE who are you to judge mate!!!! He was the strongest most courageous man who never let nothing get him down but guess what ??? His mind made him believe he couldn't get through life any more constantly mind racing bad thoughts feeling like a failure even when he was getting success with winners you have no idea how my father felt so mate he never gave up and he will continue to live on his gift of horseman ship through what he taught my brother who hasn't stopped since my father passed 5 years ago!!! So next time you have an opinion keep it at just that cos you don't know battles of depression and I truly hope you never experience it because it's something you cannot control!!! |
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Brooke_B
Foal Joined: 15 Mar 2015 Location: Ballina Status: Offline Points: 9 |
Posted: 18 May 2019 at 7:33am | ||
Wow there is no real reason you know it all as I said before he suffered with depression for many years !!!
You a real piece of work mate and to say what you have said about your own friends who have passed in they same way what type of person are you!!! You kno nothing about my father your opinion on suicide is just that you !!! And the fact you never experienced it your opinion shows no weight in anything |
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Straight arrow
Champion Joined: 01 Dec 2018 Status: Offline Points: 1026 |
Posted: 18 May 2019 at 8:34am | ||
Brooke? There are some rotten people on here who think they are worldly and smart? But they are on here expressing there opinions on something they have no idea! What Shovog has put here is unforgivable!! Sounds a rotten person who does not know what life might have in store for it? I hear you Brooke and I'm sure your farther did not want to leave. The mind is a very powerful thing. And for someone to say you have given up?? Clearly have no idea of life. And the side effects of what get thrown at you!! Be safe!!
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